10 Ways to Love Yourself and Overcome a Bad Childhood

You love yourself based on how much you perceived your parents loved you. If it wasn’t enough, then it’s up to you, now, to send love to those empty places within you. You can’t heal by blaming them, repeating the story over and over, or expecting everyone else in your life to make up for your parents’ mistakes. Only you can heal yourself from the emptiness, neediness and low-self esteem that an emotionally damaging childhood can create. Only YOU loving YOU works – not managing to get love from someone else, but only from YOU! We often look for love outside of ourselves, yearning for approvial, appreciation, hugs, positive support, attention, etc. but we find that not only can we not always depend on others to fulfill our emotional needs, but it is also exhausting trying to manipulate them to do it. So, how do you do this…how do you… Read the rest....
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Picking Yourself Up When You’re Feeling Down

When I’m down, down in the dumps, everything feels bad. I’m not interested in anything, don’t feel like connecting with others or even going outside, don’t even try to move me. Pass the ice cream. It seems that I want anything that will actually make me feel even worse!  The last thing I want is to see happy, joyous people, laughing and having everything I can’t have. It’s like a part of me is keeping me prisoner and won’t let go. Wow! That’s pretty dismal. And, the fact is, I truly am down. I’m feeling bad because my physiology is in my down state – slumping, shallow breathing, frowning, heavy, looking down. My feelings are heavy like quick sand, just pulling me farther in. My thoughts are supporting the whole process with fantasies and stories of how down I am, how it will last forever, there is no hope. Have… Read the rest....
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How to Free Yourself from Harmful Repeating Patterns

We’ve all had that experience of repeating that same old harmful pattern, over and over and no matter how hard you try to stop it, it keeps repeating? Even if you move across the country to a whole new group of people, the same old relationship problems happen all over again.  The world keeps treating us the same no matter what we do.  It is like an energetic prison that we can’t escape. I’ve spent many years studying and learning how this happens and, more importantly, how to become free and starting living life on your own terms, not based on some subconscious pattern. I’ll share with you what I’ve found out. How we create the pattern prison: You start of a new baby, a clean slate with no judgments, opinions, beliefs or expectations. Look into a baby’s eyes and you see love and wonder. That’s who you really are.… Read the rest....
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Releasing Strong Emotions from Your Past

Emotions are a lot like the weather. They can totally influence any situation, affect your decisions and change your plans…and they contain a lot of energy. That is the important point to remember, emotions are energy.  Often they are connected with past events and emerge when you trigger them. No matter how long ago something happened, if you are still carrying the energy, you are affected by that energy when it gets ‘called up’. That’s the next thing to remember, these energy patterns get triggered by your thoughts. You can be having a great day, then hear a certain song that triggers a thought  “Oh, that reminds me of my divorce!” The next thing you know, like a troll hiding under a bridge and jumping up to block your path, a huge wave of emotions come up filling you with sadness, resentment, anger and feeling powerless. You cancel your dinner… Read the rest....
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Enjoy a Deep, Rejuvenating Sleep and a Positive and Optimized Day

I’ve seen alot of self-hypnosis programs that help you sleep. While I was dozing off one night, it occurred to me that I was in a deep alpha/theta state, the brainwave state that is perfect for hypnotic suggestions. Why not create a self-hypnosis that helps you to get to sleep and when you are in that deeply relaxed state, gives you suggestions to make your next day the best day ever! That’s how Night & Day was created. First, it allows you to relax deeply using hypnotic language patterns, soothing music and brain wave entrainment to help you drop into a deeply relaxing state. While this is happening you are given suggestions to have a deeply restful sleep, to balance, heal and rejuvenate. Your subconscious knows exactly what to do. Your subconscious will respond with the result of a deep rejuvenating and healing sleep. When your subconscious and conscious minds… Read the rest....
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